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Attachment

Attachment reveals itself as the absence of self-realization, akin to darkness yearning for light; in our quest to fill an inner void with external validations, we invite fear and suffering, yet by turning inward to uncover our true wealth, the need to cling effortlessly dissipates.

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Osho, what is attachment? Why do we become so attached to things, ideas and persons? And is there freedom from attachment?

“So do one thing,” she told the courtesan. “I will pay you whatever you ask. Go to him at midnight. He meditates at midnight—has done so for thirty years. I want to know whether meditation has happened or not before I die. His hut door is only latched; no one ever goes there. Open it and go in. Whatever he says, notice every word and tell me. Go and embrace him—then come back and report. Before I die, I want to be sure that my service was not in vain.” The courtesan went. She opened the door. The monk was startled. He opened his eyes—he had been sitting in meditation—and shouted, “You wicked woman! Why are you here? Get out! What need have you to come at midnight?” But his tongue faltered; his body trembled. The woman had taken her money; she went right in. He cried, “Stay back! Why…

Osho, you say there is nothing to lose here. Then why is it that I still cannot stake everything?

Life can be lived in two ways: a hellish way and a heavenly way. I am teaching you the heavenly way—how to live here and now in a heavenly manner. This earth is heaven for those who know the art of joy. This earth is liberation for those who know the art of freedom. And this earth is hell for those who are skillful at manufacturing hell. Those who live on fear and greed turn life into hell. Those who live in non-greed and fearlessness turn life into heaven. And accept challenges, because only challenges bring to a polish the talent hidden within you; they give you edge. Challenges unify you. They organize you inwardly. You become concentrated. And challenges awaken you—for one whose life has no challenge, he sleeps. He whose life has challenge—how can he sleep? If your house is on fire, can you sleep? However tired you…

Would you please explain the working of that unknown force which keeps the human mind attached to wordly things and habits in spite of being fully aware that the ultimate result is nothing but misery?

The awareness is not total, the awareness is just intellectual. Logically you follow that "Whatsoever I am doing is leading me to misery," but this is not your existential experience. Just rationally you understand. If you were reason alone then there would have been no problem, but you are "unreason" also. If you had only conscious mind then it was okay. You have unconscious mind also. Conscious mind knows that you are going into misery every day by your own efforts; you are creating your own hell. But the unconscious is not aware, and the unconscious is nine times more than your conscious mind. And that unconscious goes on persisting in its own habits. You decide not to be angry again because anger is nothing but poisoning your own system. It gives you misery. But next time, when someone insults you, the unconscious will put aside your conscious reasoning, will…
Es Dhammo Sanantano · Discourse 122 1977-11-22 Pune Hindi

Osho, what is the definition of God?

Words are very small. If you say God is light, then what of darkness? The scriptures have said that God is light. Suppose we accept this as a definition—then what about darkness? Where will darkness go? Darkness is too; in fact it is far more than light. Light sometimes is and sometimes is not; darkness is always, eternal. Where will you place darkness? If you say God is light, darkness is left out. If you say God is darkness, then light is left out. If you say God is both darkness and light, a contradiction arises: they cannot be together. Try to have both darkness and light in the same room. If you bring in light, darkness disappears; if you preserve darkness, you cannot have light. Then how can both be together? That becomes an impossibility. So you cannot say “both” either. Then the fourth device is to say: it…

"Drop the 'you' and let love flow freely; in the disappearance of the lover and beloved, pure gratitude blossoms."

Enjoy looking at the master, but forget yourself so love is just love without ‘me’ and ‘him.’
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"True freedom comes not from discarding possessions, but from transcending the inner bondage that gives them power over you. Use the world, but remain unattached and alert."

You don’t need to throw your stuff away—just see it clearly and don’t let it run your life.
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"Desire is the root of all passions; uproot it, and both time and its shadows—lust, anger, greed, and attachment—will dissolve."

All these troubles come from wanting more; if wanting stops, the feeling of time and these troubles fade.
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"Witness both attachment and aversion without picking a side, for in that discerning watchfulness, the duality drops, freeing you to embrace the body and the world without clinging or hatred."

No—he says to watch both liking and disliking until you rise above their back-and-forth swing.
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"When action arises from a place of equanimity, it transcends both violence and non-violence, allowing you to act without hate or ego, even amidst conflict."

If you stop wanting to hurt and see no one is truly harmed, even a fight won’t make your heart violent.
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"See the master as a mirror, not a possession; let love ripen into awareness, and in that clarity, the master will disappear, leaving you utterly alone and free."

Keep loving the master, but keep watching your urge to cling until that love becomes inner independence.
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"When you lose everything, you discover that nothing essential was ever at risk; it is fear, not loss, that truly breaks us. Embrace the freedom of letting go, for in breaking, you become a new happening."

If you lose it all, don’t panic—what’s real can’t be lost, and letting go makes room for a fresh, freer you.
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"Whatever strings you touch continue to vibrate and grow, for existence always supplies the nourishment that matches your inner demand."

Once you start something inside, it keeps growing and the world brings help that matches what you really want.
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"Attachment to the physical body is love in its raw form; refine it, and it will transform into a path of freedom and communion."

It’s okay to start by liking the body; if you look deeper, it becomes real love for the soul and makes you freer.
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"Attachment to a teacher transforms your journey into imitation, where you forget your own being and become a mere actor in a borrowed role; true growth lies in shedding masks, not donning new ones."

Getting attached to a teacher makes you copy their act instead of discovering who you really are.
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"When you become unattached to the teacher, you drop the burden of secondhand guidance and embrace this moment fully; in that totality lies the essence of enlightenment."

Let go of clinging to any teacher and fully be here now; then awakening happens by itself until even ‘you’ and ‘teacher’ quietly fade away.
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"When bliss touches you, the ego trembles and the urge to flee arises; trust this paradox, for once you have tasted true grace, nothing else will ever satisfy you."

Feeling drawn to your teacher while wanting to escape means true joy is shaking your ego—just watch it and trust the process.
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"When you stop fighting your attachments and simply witness them, they dissolve in the light of your awareness, revealing the changeless center of your being."

When you try to force your feelings to go away, they grow; just watch them quietly and they melt on their own.
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"When attachment drops, you discover the beauty of solitude, and the scattered energy of your being transforms into the fuel for your inner journey towards the Divine."

When you stop clinging, outside stuff stops pushing your feelings around, you feel calm inside, your energy returns, and you move toward what truly lasts.
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"Witness your changing feelings without identification; in silent awareness, love transforms from reaction to presence."

Your feelings are like weather; watch them calmly until the storm passes, then choose.
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"Attachment to a master's physical peculiarities keeps you at the periphery, blinding you to the essence of the Master and preventing the leap beyond the mind that true love invites."

If you fixate on a guru’s looks or quirks, you chase the decoy and miss the real guide within.
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"A true master will break your heart to free you from attachment, guiding you to discover the vast emptiness within, where true freedom resides beyond dependence."

Clinging to a guru makes you dependent; a true one will shake you free so you find your own inner space.
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"Attachment is a subtle bondage; the more you cling, the heavier life becomes. Letting go brings clarity, transforming love and action into effortless movement."

Holding on too tightly makes life hard; letting go makes it flow.
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"When you drop attachment to what you think you have, the fear that guards your illusion collapses, and you become free to risk everything for truth."

If you stop clinging to tiny, imagined possessions, your fear fades and you can act with your whole heart.
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"Attachment is the absence of self-realization; when you turn inward and discover your inner wealth, clinging dissolves naturally."

We cling because we feel empty inside; find your inner treasure and the need to hold on fades by itself.
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"Attachment is the mind's desperate clinging to sorrow, a way to avoid the inner emptiness; true freedom arises when we dare to embrace that emptiness instead of feeding the ego with suffering."

Attachment is like hugging a thorny bush because you’re scared to let go—it hurts, but it makes you feel you still have something.
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"Attachment is the mind's clinging to illusions of pleasure, and it persists because we have yet to awaken to the truth of our own suffering."

We keep holding a hurting thing because we still think it will feel good, and everyone around us is holding it too—only when we clearly feel the hurt ourselves do we let it go.
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"The unconscious is a powerful force, binding us to our habits and attachments, while the conscious mind merely observes; true liberation comes through disciplined practice that reconditions this deep-seated nature."

Your hidden automatic mind is stronger than your thinking mind, so you keep doing what hurts until you train that hidden part.
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"Attachment is the identification with the accidental, ensuring that loss and suffering are inevitable; true awakening lies in recognizing the timeless essence of pure being beyond possessions."

If you cling to things that can disappear, you will hurt; who you truly are can’t be lost.
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"Stay attached where you grow, but when growth ceases, detach without guilt; your loyalty is to consciousness, not to yesterday’s boat."

Like a tree needs soil, stick with the person or guide who helps you grow; when they don’t, thank them and find new ground.
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