According to Osho, when attachment drops and you see worldly ties as a passing play, the outer no longer affects you. Tears and thrills subside into equanimity, a witnessing consciousness awakens, and the courage to be alone flowers. Then energy that was scattered outside gathers within, becoming the fuel for inner transformation and the journey to the Divine—the only relationship that never breaks.
When you stop clinging, outside stuff stops pushing your feelings around, you feel calm inside, your energy returns, and you move toward what truly lasts.