According to Osho, 'surrender to me' is not personal ego but an invitation to yield to an ego-free, all-inclusive consciousness. He calls his 'ego' so vast it includes people, nature, time—therefore it is empty of the separate 'I.' Like Krishna, Buddha, and Jesus, the 'me' points to the universal, not a personality. Surrender dissolves the little self into that spacious wholeness.
He means you’re not surrendering to a bossy person, but to the big loving awareness that includes everything and has no separate ‘I’.
From the Discourses
Passages where Osho speaks to this question — each links to the complete discourse.
Ecstasy The Forgotten Language · Discourse 8
1976-12-18 · Buddha Hall · English
You say, "surrender to me." does this not show that you are full of ego?
Sure! I am the greatest egoist you can ever find. My ego is so vast that you all are included in it. It is so vast that trees and animals and rocks are included in it. It is so vast that stars and the moon and sun are included in it. It is so vast that the past, present, and future are included in it. Hence I say to you, "Surrender to me." Krishna says to Arjuna in the Geeta: "SARVA DHARMAN PARITYAJYA MAMEKAM SHARANAM VRAJ" -- "Leave all your religions and come to my feet." He is also the same type of egoist as I am. Buddha says, "Come to me, and I will deliver you." He is also the same type of egoist. And Jesus says, "I have come into the world to deliver everybody." What pure egos! Yes, you are right, sir. I am a great egoist.…Read the full discourse →
The Diamond Sutra · Discourse 6
1977-12-26 · Buddha Hall · English
What is it to be surrendered to you?
Savita, that which you don't have and you think that you have, has to be surrendered to me. You don't really have the ego, the I, the self. You don't have it really. You are living in a kind of illusion that you are separate from existence. That separation is not there. You cannot live for a single split moment as separate. You cannot live like an island. You are part of the whole. The whole goes on participating in your being, the whole goes on showering you with its energy, but you have the idea that "I am separate." That 'I' has to be surrendered to me. And you don't have it, so you will not be really surrendering something to me, just an illusion. Let me repeat: that which you don't have, I want to take it away from you. And that which you have, I want to…Read the full discourse →
From Ignorance To Innocence · Discourse 30
1984-12-29 · Lao Tzu Grove · English
Question: OSHO, WHAT IS THE PLACE OF SURRENDER IN YOUR RELIGION? I do not teach the ego, hence I cannot teach surrender, because surrender is nothing but the subtlest form of the ego. Surrender is not against the ego, it is in fact an act of the ego. Who surrenders? And by surrendering, who becomes humble? Who becomes meek? It is the ego standing upside down. It makes no difference whether the ego is standing on its legs or on its head. In fact it is more dangerous when it is on its head because then you will not be able to recognize it. Jesus says, "Blessed are the meek," but what is meekness? "Blessed are the humble," but what is humbleness? Can a man who has no ego be humble? How can he be humble? Who will be humble?Read the full discourse →
The Golden Wind · Discourse 13
1980-07-13 · Chuang Tzu Auditorium · English
Love simply moans surrendering the ego. Don't live any more as an ego, Drop the idea that you are separate, forget completely that you are a different entity. We are rooted in existence, we are one with it, part of it ; we live through it, it lives through us. We are intertwined, we are interdependent. You cannot exist without the whole, and the whole also cannot exist without you. If it could exist without you it would have existed without you. Just that you are is proof enough that existence needs you in some way, you are fulfilling a certain need. Even the smallest blade of grass is as needed as the greatest star. There is no hierarchy in existence. Nobody is higher and nobody is lower, and nobody is more needed and nobody is less needed. All is needed because existence means the togetherness of all.Read the full discourse →
The Sun Rises In The Evening · Discourse 10
1978-06-20 · Buddha Hall · English
In surrendering to you, am I surrendering to myself?
Nirvesh, in asking it you have lost the way. Just a few days before, Nirvesh was there in darshan, and was saying to me 'Now it is enough. Enough is enough. For one year I have been wandering. Now I surrender everything to you. Now take possession of me and lead me wherever you want.' Now, this question: IN SURRENDERING TO YOU, AM I SURRENDERING TO MYSELF? Yes, if you really surrender to me, you have surrendered to your real self, because I am one with the real self of all. That is the meaning of God. I am no more separate from the whole, I am where you also should be. I am just a reflection of your innermost core; you cannot see within it yourself because you are not yet able to go into those deeper realms of your being, but you can see it in me. The…Read the full discourse →