According to Osho, when you force situations, you turn against your own nature, igniting an inner civil war—a split self riddled with repression, seriousness, and anxiety. This violence makes you manipulable and robs life of love, playfulness, and joy. Drop past/future projections, stop forcing, and relax into the present; in acceptance your individuality, clarity, and freedom flower, and this moment opens as the door to the divine.
If you try to push life to be your way, you end up fighting yourself and feeling miserable; if you relax and accept what is, you feel whole, free, and happy right now.