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Do you really say yes to me totally just the way I am?

To say yes to you as you are is to embrace your potential for growth; in unconditional acceptance lies the key to transformation.

— Osho
According to Osho, he says a total yes to you exactly as you are, because unconditional acceptance is the doorway to transformation. His love respects your present self while affirming your vast potential; no one is a sinner—only a learner who may stumble and grow. Enjoy who you are, keep moving, learn from mistakes, and aim for the farthest stars; acceptance empowers evolution, not complacency.

I fully accept you now because that loving yes helps you grow into your best self—mistakes are lessons, so enjoy the step you’re on and keep climbing.

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Question: BELOVED OSHO, DO YOU REALLY SAY YES TO ME TOTALLY JUST THE WAY I AM? Yes, I say yes totally to you as you are because that is the only way I can transform you. My acceptance does not mean that you have to remain what you are; my acceptance means that whatever you are I respect you, I love you. But at the same time, my acceptance means that you can be much more, that this is not the end of your journey. In fact, you have not even begun yet, but I can see the potential. For centuries, this has been the way to challenge you to seek and search: you have been condemned; whatever you are, you are wrong. The emphasis has been that if you are proved to be wrong, a sinner, then you will start changing. But that whole technique has failed.
The Revolution · Discourse 4Question 1 1978-02-14 Buddha Hall English

You said the other day 'just love and accept yourself.' gradually self acceptance has been growing in my life. I have had several moments of experiencing unconditional love from the universe. In these three weeks since becoming a sannyasin, the most difficult and mind-blowing experience for me has been the reality of your unconditional acceptance of me and everything I am and do. I feel it like a soft caressing smoke from some distant fire enveloping me and penetrating the walls of my ego. Through so many ways your unconditional acceptance comes to me for the first time in my life. I weep as I

PREM Samma, life is happening, God is happening. This is what life is all about. The moment you accept yourself you become open, you become vulnerable, you become receptive. The moment you accept yourself then there is no need for any future, because there is no need to improve upon anything. Then all is good, then all is good as it is. In that very experience life starts taking a new color, a new music arises. If you accept yourself, that is the beginning of accepting all. If you reject yourself you are basically rejecting the universe; if you reject yourself you are rejecting God. If you accept yourself you have accepted God. Then there is nothing else to do but to enjoy, to celebrate. There is no complaint left, there is no grudge; you feel grateful. Then life is good and death is good, then joy is good and…

Beloved Osho, yes!

Sarjano, there was no need to say yes because I have seen it in your eyes. I have heard it when you were sitting near me, although you have not uttered it. Since you have come to me there has never been a no in you. And it is strange, because your type is no-type! You have said no to everything, and perhaps that is the reason that your no is finished. You don't have any no anymore, and you have come to the person with whom you can connect only through yes. To be with a master is to be in a yes attitude. That's what I mean by receptivity, openness, vulnerability. But I know that one wants to say it, thinking perhaps I may not be aware. I am absolutely aware of those people whose heartbeat is saying yes. There are people who are still in two minds…

Osho, I don't accept your criticism of sigmund freud. Do you accept a sannyasin who sometimes says no to what you say? I am not less neurotic than freud, but I think that I can become creative only if I learn to accept the neurotic part of myself. What do you say to this?

WHO HAS CRITICIZED SIGMUND FREUD? I was simply stating a few facts! To state a fact is not a criticism. If I call a blind man a blind man, I may be rude but I am not criticizing. I may be blunt, I may not be polite, but I am not criticizing. Freud was neurotic, and there are a thousand and one facts supporting this. Just look into Freud's biographies and you will come across those facts yourself. He was a homosexual. He wrote such stupid homosexual letters to a man that later on he asked the man again and again to destroy those letters, because when he became famous he was afraid that some day or other those letters would come to public notice. The major part of those letters was destroyed, but a few somehow survived. His whole life he was condemning homosexuality, and he had deep homosexual…
Om Mani Padme Hum · Discourse 6 1987-12-24 Gautam the Buddha Auditorium English
Question: BELOVED MASTER, WHAT IS TOTAL ACCEPTANCE? Paddy is a private in the British army during World War II. One day, the general calls him to his tent and says, "Private Murphy, you have been chosen for a very special mission. You will be parachuted at night behind the enemy lines, where you will be met by a jeep. And the driver will give you your orders." So that night, Paddy goes up in the plane. They are approaching the enemy lines when Paddy turns to his officer and says, "But sir, I have never parachuted. What should I do?" "Don't worry," replies the officer. "All you do is jump. Then three seconds later look up and you will see your parachute open. If it does not, just pull your emergency cord and your second parachute will open. When you land, the jeep will be there to meet you.
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