According to Osho, the way to be accepting and creative with 'neither this nor that' is to drop the very urge to accept or reject and let the mind’s pendulum stop in absoluteness—tathata, suchness. Enter the confusion fully; allow it to deepen into chaos without clinging. In that non-dual, mindless space, the old identity dies and authentic creativity spontaneously arises.
Don’t force a yes or no—let things be, even if it’s confusing, and real creativity will grow on its own.