According to Osho, the belief that a householder cannot realize God is false. God permeates everything; escape changes nothing because you carry your restless mind with you. Realization happens not by running but by awakening—cultivating inner stillness, clarity, and freedom from conflict—right where you are: in your shop, home, or ashram. Neither family nor work obstructs; only distractedness does.
You can find God without leaving your family; just wake up inside and be calm, because the problem isn’t the world, it’s a noisy mind.