According to Osho, we don’t see our mistake about suffering because we live on borrowed beliefs and lack awareness in the very moment pain arises. During anger or hurt we are unconscious, identified, “drunk,” so recognition comes only afterward, as regret. Only present, direct seeing—not doctrines or memory—reveals suffering as it appears and dissolves its grip.
Like being asleep while you’re angry, we miss the mistake as it happens and only realize it later, when the damage is done.