According to Osho, love is not a contract or bondage but a meeting of two free individuals, so it never cancels separation—it honors individuality. In mature love, trust arises experientially, allowing doubt to refine intelligence. When freedom is the first step, love deepens without possession; separateness (individuality) remains intact while the false, dependent personality dissolves.
Real love lets each person stay their own self; you can be close and still free.