According to Osho, true togetherness is possible only when you have learned the art of being alone—not loneliness, but joyous aloneness. Loneliness is suffering and mere 'satisfaction' is adaptation; aloneness is deep contentment where no craving for the other remains. From that inner fullness, relationship becomes sharing, not escape or dependency, and love flowers without clinging.
Be happy and whole by yourself first; then you can be with someone without needing them to fill your emptiness.