According to Osho, love in its deepest nature springs from our underlying oneness—one oceanic existence—not from the mind’s love-hate polarity. Polarity creates attraction, dependence and the political game of domination; it gives momentum but not freedom. When love is rooted in shared being, it is communion rather than possession, equality rather than dependence, and tends toward inner silence—a non-dual presence beyond love-versus-hate.
Real love comes from feeling we are one, not from the push-and-pull that tries to own or control.