According to Osho, love expresses itself as whatever you are inside; your words and energy will carry your inner fragrance or stench. So don’t force polite behavior—awaken awareness. See your abuses, loosen their grip, and cleanse yourself. When guilt-making habits drop through watchfulness, your being becomes light, undivided, and then love naturally flows—prayerful, respectful, and unpolluted.
Clean up your inside with awareness, and love will come out clean on its own.