According to Osho, in the ultimate sense no one is 'ours'; the world of relationships is largely a convention we invent to escape our fear of aloneness. We come alone, go alone, and are alone even amidst crowds. Recognizing this doesn't demand withdrawal; it births mature, non-possessive love and inner freedom, letting us relate playfully without clinging or self-deception.
No one truly belongs to us; we live and die alone, and accepting this lets us love kindly without trying to own people.