According to Osho, to be totally yourself requires no method: you already are it. Drop all becoming and goals; live each moment exactly as you are, without judgment or rejection. Total acceptance brings understanding, and in that light sadness, anger and greed naturally dissolve, the same energy flowering as joy, compassion and love. Listen attentively, be present, and let transformation happen rather than trying to do it.
Stop trying to become someone; accept whatever you feel right now, and your real self will shine by itself.