According to Osho, persevere only when a relationship is moving from peripheral acquaintance toward a meeting of centers—when both partners choose love over fear, risk vulnerability, and are transformed by the shared space. If contact stays merely bodily or social, ruled by calculation, protection, and fear, it isn’t love; don’t cling. Relationship depends on two: if openness isn’t mutual, release it and live lovingly, here-now.
Stay if you both open your hearts and grow together; let go if it stays shallow and fearful even after you try to be open.