According to Osho, when women (or anyone) turn suffering into a grand display—true or false—it mainly seeks sympathy, not healing. This craving for witnesses to pain is morbid; it bores or repels others, breeds mutual complaining, and traps you in victimhood. No one delights in another’s sorrow for long. Instead of parading wounds, share joy; it invites real companionship and shifts energy toward growth and freedom.
Showing off your pain mostly asks for pity, tires people, and keeps you stuck—share your happiness instead.