According to Osho, to take the other as the end is to stop making yourself the goal and recognize the Whole/Divine as the only center. You are a means—a hollow reed—through which existence plays. Drop the ego’s claim to be the end, surrender as instrument (nimitta), and you instantly dissolve into harmony; nothing to attain—just awaken and allow.
Let the Whole be the purpose and be the flute the Divine plays, not the player.