According to Osho, you cannot manufacture a singular virtue by opposing your present nature or by taking vows; that only represses you and the same desire reappears in subtler forms. You never vow what you already are. Authentic qualities flower naturally; they don’t need proclamation. So being “the one” with a special quality in a crowd is not achieved by effortful suppression but by inner understanding and transformation.
You can’t force yourself to be the only special one; real goodness grows naturally from self-understanding, not from strict promises.