According to Osho, attaining the Divine is simultaneously defeat and victory: you must 'lose' first—surrender the ego, control, and claim to win—because in love’s paradox only losing opens the door. This self-surrender is the method; fullness, freedom, and union are the result. Lose totally to win totally; devotion surrenders, knowledge conquers—each with its own dangers.
You reach God by stopping the urge to be the winner—drop your ego, and real victory appears.