According to Osho, you can’t let go by trying, because letting go is a happening, not a doing. The ego—the inner doer—clings and becomes the very barrier. Cultivate childlike innocence and a humble ‘I don’t know,’ and allow a total, sincere thirst for truth. When seeking becomes simple and wholehearted, intuition arises and attachments to mother and wife naturally loosen without effort.
Stop trying to force letting go; become simple and honest, and when your heart truly seeks truth, clinging fades by itself.