According to Osho, harmony in relationships comes from seeing life’s dialectical rhythm and relaxing into it: welcome both concord and discord, and shift from contractual relationships based on the illusion of independence or dependence to lived interdependence, like waves in the ocean. Rooted in silent acceptance and nonattachment, love flows naturally and conflict loses its sting.
Accept the ups and downs, drop the me-versus-you idea, and relate as parts of one ocean so love can flow easily.