According to Osho, when we say yes to drop the ego, once its job of giving us individuality is done, we stop confusing the ladder or boat for a home; we set it down, grow unburdened, and arrive at the other shore—mature acceptance replacing defensive separation. The first no creates form; the final yes lets it dissolve into openness and trust.
First you build yourself with a clear no; then you say a big yes, put the ego down, and life becomes lighter and whole.