According to Osho, seeking personal guidance traps you in dependence and lets others impose their mind-made patterns on you, turning guidance into misguidance. You waste energy trying to be someone else, lose contact with your inner voice, and miss the universe's impersonal, loving guidance. Instead, trust your silence, gratitude, and natural spontaneity; then existence itself leads you.
If you ask others how to live, you stop hearing your own heart; be quiet and open, and life itself will show you the way.