According to Osho, as you become more aware of yourself, love stops being a search for someone else and becomes a meditative sharing. Awareness makes you responsible for your experience: jealousy falls, expectations drop, and friendship flowers as pure love. Then you stop chasing marketplace substitutes and find fulfillment where you are, because the quality of love depends on your inner readiness, not on the other.
When you truly notice yourself, you stop chasing others, drop jealousy, and naturally share love without bargaining.