According to Osho, the phrase reflects patriarchal conditioning: women, trained for centuries to be shy and unaggressive, often mask desire, so a spoken 'no' may playfully hide a 'yes.' In conscious, liberated relating this game should end—words match reality: yes means yes, no means no. Honor clarity, initiative, and unequivocal consent.
It means old rules made women pretend, but in real respect you take words as they are: yes is yes and no is no.