According to Osho, realization is an unshakable centeredness—equanimity untouched by sorrow, success, or failure; being here yet abiding "elsewhere," like a lotus in water. You can only infer it from such steady grace; outer behavior varies and can deceive. Fixed images mislead. Definitive recognition comes only through your own direct experience; inference opens the door, personal realization ends doubt.
It feels like steady calm no matter what happens, but you can’t be sure about others just by looks—you must taste it yourself.