According to Osho, to ‘push someone aside to insert one’s own need’ is the ego’s subtle violence: turning a living person into an object to serve your craving. It is manipulation born of fear and inner emptiness—a kind of self-hypnosis. He urges awareness—watch the surge of need, breathe, don’t act mechanically—so love becomes a meeting of freedoms, not a strategy of control.
It means forcing what you want onto someone and using them like a thing instead of caring for them as a person.