According to Osho, experiences inevitably condition the mind and shape the personality, but they never touch your essential witnessing consciousness. What truly transforms you is not the heap of past impressions but alert awareness as experiences arise and pass. Use experience as a mirror, not a burden: watch, learn, and let go. Then you mature without being imprisoned by memory.
Yes, life events shape your habits, but the real you—the watcher—stays unchanged; grow by noticing and letting go, not by collecting experiences.