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What is the significance of the smile before and during discourse?

The smile before speaking acknowledges the absurdity of words, reminding us of the silence that lies beyond; when discourse ends, the smile returns, revealing the true teaching in our nonverbal presence.

— Osho
According to Osho, the smile before speaking acknowledges the absurd, torturous necessity of using words to point to the wordless; it is compassion and a reminder of the silence behind speech. During discourse the smile fades because speaking is a burden. When discourse ends, the smile returns—freedom from words—hinting that the real teaching is the nonverbal presence you will learn to hear.

He smiles to show that the real teaching is silent; talking is hard but needed, so the smile appears before and after, and fades during the effort of speaking.

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Beloved Osho, before you start talking, you smile. When you start talking, your smile disappears and you don't smile again until you've finished. Can you tell us about that?

It is relevant, because to speak is such a torture and such a useless activity. It has to be done because there is no other way to bring you towards the silence that exists in me. You won't listen to it; you can listen only to words. So I am smiling when I start talking, but while I am talking it is difficult to smile. It is such a torture and such a futile effort to say something which cannot be said, to talk about something which cannot be talked about, to go on continuously pointing with the fingers to the moon which cannot be fingered. But there is no other way, so I have to continue it. By and by, you will become able to listen to the nonverbal, to the wordless. By and by, you will become able to listen when I am not talking -- then there…

Osho, if Mahakashyap had not burst into laughter that morning, would Buddha still have given him the flower, the symbol of silence?

The head disciple laughed. “He’s not angry. When you go in with thought, your face has a different look. When you go in thoughtless, your face has a different look. Consider: when you are full of thought, your whole face is tense. There are lines in the eyes and furrows on the brow. When you are without thought, all furrows are gone, all tension drops. When you are thoughtless, such peace drizzles around you that even the ignorant would notice—will the master not? That he even lets you reach the doorway is his compassion. As for me, you don’t know—I used to be stopped outside the door. He would say, ‘Go back. Don’t bring idle babble here.’ He hadn’t even seen me yet! But my shadow arrived before me, my atmosphere reached the threshold before I did—as if a fragrance gave him the news.” The new disciple asked, “Then how…

Osho! In the discourse, about the fruit you said that I fell silent and said nothing. Osho, for so many years you have fed us so many fruits that now there is nothing left to say and nothing left to ask. Everything has been received. Now only your grace remains. My gratitude, your blessing and benevolence, hundreds of thousands, millions, billions of times over!

One of the West’s great philosophers, Wittgenstein, wrote in his astonishing book—this century’s most astonishing—Tractatus: “Whereof one cannot speak, thereof one must be silent.” About that which cannot be said, don’t, by mistake, say anything either. Because whatever you say will be wrong; whatever you say will spread misunderstandings; whatever you say will cause harm. Say only what can be said; remain silent about what cannot. Those who can understand will understand your silence; those who cannot will be driven into deeper confusions by your words. Therefore the real thing is never said. I, too, am not saying it. What I am saying to you is only to take you to that place where you can understand my silence. I am busy preparing for silence. If you are ready, I will become silent. It’s only a matter of your readiness. If you all become like Fali Bhai, I will fall…

Osho, it is surprising that only when you speak do we get a slight glimpse of your peak through words. Why is that?

No one understands silence. If someone loves you and does not say so, you will not be able to grasp that he loves you. If in no way does he express it—through gesture, through the eyes, through words—these are all “words”—if he remains silent, you will never recognize that someone loves you. It has to be said; it has to be expressed. And then a very amusing thing happens. Even if there is no love, if someone is skilled in expressing, you will feel that there is love. Many times, the one who is skilled in expression becomes the lover. It is not necessary that there be love—because you do not understand love; you only understand words. Husbands and wives begin to feel depressed—how long can one keep saying the same words? Then they no longer carry any flavor. But as soon as words are lost, the relationship is lost.…

Osho, for forty years continuously Buddha gave discourses and sermons, and it is said that he did not speak a single word. Likewise, you too have been speaking and giving discourses for twenty years, and it could be said that you do not speak a single word. Is this true?

There is a sweet story about Mahavira. The Jains, in their rigidity, clung to the letter and missed the essence. The story is that Mahavira never spoke, and yet people heard. This is a difficult matter: Mahavira did not speak, yet people heard. Mahavira did not speak in any language that the ears can hear. The Jains say his speech is soundless—nishabd. There are no words in it. Yet people heard—those who could. If they too became wordless, sat near Mahavira in silence, they heard. Therefore there is another story in Mahavira’s life, important to note: wild animals heard him, gods of the sky came to listen, birds and beasts came, ghosts and spirits were present. The Jains have great difficulty explaining how birds and beasts can hear. Certainly, if Mahavira spoke in a language, then even among humans only those who knew that tongue could understand. If I am…
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