According to Osho, when love begins to flow in you, it becomes a caring, consenting awareness that honors the other as an end in themselves. You move slowly, ask, and wait; you give without demanding, possessing, or manipulating. Gratitude replaces ego and ambition, and your love protects the other’s freedom rather than enslaving them—nonviolent, tender, and considerate in every step.
When love starts inside you, you become gentle and patient—you ask before you touch, you give without expecting, and you let others be free.
From the Discourses
Passages where Osho speaks to this question — each links to the complete discourse.
The Golden Wind · Discourse 22
1980-07-22 · Chuang Tzu Auditorium · English
That first shock makes you feel like you are dying because that's what you had always known as your life. Your very identity has disappeared as if the earth beneath your feet has suddenly disappeared: you look and there is no earth and you are falling into an abyss. But soon -- and you cannot do anything you have to go on falling, there is nothing to do -- soon you start feeling a great joy instead of fear. The shock disappears, and instead of the fear a great joy arises in you because now for the first time there is space for the joy to happen. It needs space, and thoughts are occupying your inner space so much that it is impossible for bliss to happen. My sannyasins have to do only one thing, that is, they have to become watchers of the mind, not controllers, just watchers.Read the full discourse →
Sabai Sayane Ek Mat · Discourse 8
1975-09-18 · Pune · Hindi · English translation
Question: Second question: Osho, is love life itself? Is it aliveness? These are now scientific findings; not poetry or stories. Many laboratories in the world have reached decisive conclusions: love increases life. The rose you love will produce larger flowers—of course it will, because you have given it dignity. The life of the plant is thrilled; it wants to delight you because you delighted it. You gave to it; it wants to return. What more can it do but blossom into a larger flower? Under the love of true Masters, disciples have attained the Divine—sometimes without any doing at all. And at other times, after doing much, if the Master’s loving shade is not there, nothing happens. That is why surrender has such value. Surrender simply means: do not be a wall to the stream of love flowing from the Master’s life—be a door.Read the full discourse →
Even Bein Gawd Ain T A Bed Of Roses · Discourse 14
1979-10-14 · Chuang Tzu Auditorium · English
And only when one is full of light.... The first child of light is love. And love contains all that is beautiful, all that is divine: compassion, prayer, creativity, grace. They all follow love, you need not think about them, they are by-products, consequences of love. But love itself happens only through light. All meditation techniques are devices to bring you out of your sleep, to help you wake up. OSHO (to Aige) : Your heart starts pulsating in a different rhythm. The whole world remains the same but your eyes are no more the same; hence you start seeing things which you have never seen before and you stop seeing things which you have always been seeing. So in a sense the world remains the same and in another sense it is no more the same, because when the seer changes, the seen changes.Read the full discourse →
Jin Sutra · Discourse 22
1976-06-01 · Pune · Hindi · English translation
Osho, you have titled this series of talks “Sahaj Yoga.” Do “sahaj” and “yoga” not seem mutually opposed?
Anand Maitreya! They don’t just seem opposed, they are opposed. But no ultimate truth of life can manifest without contradiction. Life is made of opposites—darkness and light, day and night, woman and man, negative electricity and positive electricity, birth and death. The very structure of life is woven of opposites. Hence the opposites are not only opposed; they are complementary to each other. If you have labored hard all day, you will be able to sleep deeply. Labor and rest are opposites, yet only the one who has worked can rest deeply—and the one who has not worked cannot. So the opposites are not only opposed, they complete each other. And only the one who has rested deeply at night can rise in the morning and engage in work again. One who has not rested through the night will not be able to work in the morning. Look closely at…Read the full discourse →
The Miracle · Discourse 6
1980-08-06 · Chuang Tzu Auditorium · English
I have heard about a dog.... Somewhere in Japan on a railway station there is a statue of a dog. His master used to go to work every day by train and the dog would come to give him a send-off every day. And when the man would return by the evening train the dog would always be there waiting on the platform to receive him. This was a routine thing, year in, year out. Whether it was raining or it was hot or cold or snow was falling, there was no difference; the dog was there exactly on time. One day the dog came to receive his master but the master didn't turn up. He had died in an accident.Read the full discourse →