According to Osho, fantasizing creates a private dream that stands between you and the person, replacing real contact with your own projection. In that dream you are both dreamer and dreamed; it deepens inner sleep, dulls awareness, and can even unhinge you. Drop fantasies immediately, meet reality directly, and risk the change that true seeing demands—be present, alert, and awake.
When you make up stories about someone, you stop seeing them as they are and fall asleep in your head—so wake up and look for real.