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What guidance do you have for homosexuals seeking love and acceptance?

Love is a natural force that transcends labels; embrace it in its purest form, and let go of the confines that society imposes.

— Osho
According to Osho, homosexuality is an acquired, unnatural habit born of repression and celibate, zoo-like environments; he urges homosexuals to drop it, gather courage to love women, and return to 'natural' heterosexual love, then deepen and transform that love. He rejects celibacy, refuses to endorse homosexuality or AIDS, and says institutions that promoted celibacy—especially the Vatican—should accept responsibility and care for those afflicted.

He says stop being homosexual, choose heterosexual love, avoid celibacy, and let your love mature and transform.

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Tao The Golden Gate Vol 2 · Discourse 10
1980-06-30 · Buddha Hall · English
Question: OSHO, I AM HOMOSEXUAL. WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT IT? My fundamental principle is acceptance -- tathata. Whatsoever is the situation, you accept it. From there things can begin. Don't reject it. It is out of rejection that the problem has arisen, so only with acceptance... Relax into it and you will be surprised. If you can accept it without any guilt, slowly slowly your homosexuality will turn into heterosexuality again. Why? -- because guilt is also a religious phenomenon, and homosexuality too. They are joined together, they are tied together. If you go on feeling guilty, you will remain homosexual. Drop the guilt, accept it. Nothing is wrong, just you are carrying the whole ugly past of humanity. What can you do? You have come a little late, people have preceded before. They have dirtied the whole beach. So we have to clean it.
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From Bondage To Freedom · Discourse 16
1985-09-30 · Rajneeshmandir · English

Beloved master, almost daily we hear you vilify homosexuals. Are you withdrawing your love from the thousands of us who are homosexual and also happen to be in love with you? I feel like a second-class member of the community. Do you have any guidance for us?

As a homosexual you are not even a human being, what to say about a second-class citizen? You have fallen from dignity. I have great love for you, but that does not mean that I will support your perversion. You love me, but your love is meaningless if you cannot understand what I am saying. Be heterosexual. Homosexuality is just a habit that you have got, an ugly habit. Drop it. It is simply a question of dropping it, because it is not natural. Wild animals in the jungle are never homosexual; but in zoos, where females are not available, they turn into homosexuals. All your monasteries are zoos! Why are you becoming part of a zoo? Gather courage: Why are you afraid of a woman? My love is for you. That's why I am condemning homosexuality continually -- because I want you to become natural again. But homosexuals used…
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Beloved master, I am homosexual. I feel terribly oppressed and stricken by the stigma of homosexuality. It seems false to me to come here to find a way to come closer to myself and at the same time not to have the courage to show myself the way I am. Then I want to resign and return home so that I don't have to think about it any longer. What can I do?

You meditate -- homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual.... You meditate. You become more still and more silent. You create inner emptiness. You become more transparent, and then things will start changing. You will be able to see what you are doing to yourself. If it is right you will go on doing it with more joy, with more totality, with more intensity, with more passion. If it is wrong it will simply drop, just like dead leaves falling from a tree. So I cannot suggest any specific method because to me all the problems are arising because we have become minds and we have forgotten that deep down there is a space within us which can be called no-mind. Entering that space, no-mind, will give you perspective, vision, clarity. Meditate. Sit silently watching your thoughts -- homosexual, heterosexual, whatsoever they are, it doesn't matter. You watch, you become the witness. Slowly slowly,…
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Osho, do you still have pistol-carrying aides? Are you against guns? What is your opinion about the arms race?

I am against all kind of violence. The arms race is leading humanity to absolute destruction. And this is such a loss to the universe, that we cannot even imagine. This vast, infinite universe is alive only because of us. It is conscious only because of human beings; otherwise, those big stars, millions of solar systems, are just dead. It is to the credit of this earth, that we have been able to produce people like Socrates, Gautam Buddha, Lao Tzu, Pythagoras. To destroy humanity means to destroy the effort of millions of years that existence has been making. Existence is trying to become conscious through us; it is trying to become aware through us. It is a long journey from a stone to becoming a Gautam Buddha, and to destroy this whole effort by stupid politicians is unforgivable. The whole arms race should stop immediately. The Russian prime minister…
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Yoga The Alpha And The Omega Vol 9 · Discourse 8
1976-04-28 · Buddha Hall · English

You have been talking a lot about sex, which is good, because it has been for such a long tin1e kept in the dark. However, I have personally never heard you talk about homosexuality; only very, very briefly, and actually always to put it down. Please would you talk about it, because no matter what is the cause of "this perverted act," as you describe it, homosexuality did and does exist in the world. Can't the moon side meet the sun side in whatever body? Is tantra only for heterosexual people? Should people repress their homosexual tendencies?

I am not against anything, but I will not help you to cling to any place. Go on, go on, never cling to any place. I am not condemning anything. Use that opportunity, but go on. A few anecdotes: An obviously distressed gent staggered into a psychiatrist's office and said, "Doctor, you have got to help me. Every night I dream I am marooned on a desert island with a dozen blondes, a dozen brunettes, and a dozen redheads, each more beautiful than all the rest." "You must be the luckiest man alive," said the doctor. "What do you need my help for?" "My problem," said the patient, "is that in my dreams I am a man." You get it? Otherwise let me tell you another joke. Two retired army colonels were talking in their club. "Did you hear about old Carstairs?" asked one. "No, what about him?" said the…
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