According to Osho, you can’t truly know what you want until you know who you are. Desire flows from identity: if you live as ego, you’ll crave money, power, prestige and fall into conflict and misery; if you awaken beyond ego, your life carries fragrance and your wants arise naturally from awareness, not ambition. First become conscious; then authentic desires reveal themselves.
Find out who you really are first, and then what you truly want will appear on its own instead of being copied by your ego.