According to Osho, misunderstanding arises because people are unconscious—mechanically asleep, stuffed with borrowed knowledge—and rely on language, which distorts meaning. True communication is rare; words are heard but something else is understood. Only love and silence bridge hearts, but we neither love nor are silent. Without inner presence, speech fragments reality, so messages are misread and conflict multiplies.
We misunderstand because we talk from a noisy mind instead of a quiet, loving heart, so words get twisted.
From the Discourses
Passages where Osho speaks to this question — each links to the complete discourse.
This Very Body The Buddha · Discourse 5
1977-12-15 · Buddha Hall · English
Why is there so much misunderstanding in the world?
Now the same sentence takes a new meaning, just the contrary to the first. The meaning is that man is free. That man can be whatsoever he chooses to be. That man is a kind of god. That nobody decides for man, man has to decide for himself. That man's decision has to come from his own soul. What he is going to write on the tabula rasa is his own writing, there will be his own signature. Man has individuality. No mango tree has any individuality. No peacock has any individuality -- all peacocks are alike, and all mango trees. But man has uniqueness, individuality. There is great hope. Now see? The meaning has turned just to the opposite polarity. I have come across a third interpretation too. For others it means: Everything is permissible to man. And with that they abandon all restraint, they become licentious. They say,…Read the full discourse →
Sat Chit Anand · Discourse 8
1987-11-25 · Chuang Tzu Auditorium · English
Question: BELOVED OSHO, WHAT IS MISUNDERSTANDING? Devageet, misunderstanding is obviously the mother superior of mistakes. Man lives almost half awake, half asleep. Hence whatever he understands is only half. With each of his understandings there is a shadow, a deep unconsciousness which continues to misinterpret, to distort, to confuse whatever small light, whatever small consciousness he has got. His consciousness is certainly very small -- just a thin layer, not more than skin-deep. And his unconsciousness is long, deep, nine times more than his consciousness. That dark night is within you. It has never seen the light of the day. So whatever your consciousness tries to see, to hear, your unconsciousness, which is nine times more -- its weight, its pressure is tremendous -- distorts it. You think you have understood something, but it is always finally a misunderstanding.Read the full discourse →
Zen The Special Transmission · Discourse 2
1980-07-02 · Buddha Hall · English
Question: OSHO, WHAT IS UNDERSTANDING AND WHAT IS MISUNDERSTANDING? Dharmaraj, Mind is misunderstanding -- any kind of mind, good or bad, educated or uneducated, cultured or uncultured, Christian or Hindu; it does not matter what kind of mind it is. Mind as such is misunderstanding. Mind means you are carrying a priori conclusions; you are not seeing that which is, you are seeing that which you want to see. You are not seeing but projecting. Your mind is a projector; it uses everything as a kind of screen, it projects itself on the screen. In the dim light you can see a rope as a snake. the snake does not exist; it is your fear projected, the rope becomes a screen. But for you the snake becomes as real as if it was really there. It can affect you -- it will affect you.Read the full discourse →
The Great Pilgrimage From Here To Here · Discourse 27
1987-10-03 · Gautam the Buddha Auditorium · English
Question: BELOVED OSHO, IS MISUNDERSTANDING NATURAL TO THE HUMAN MIND? Milarepa, misunderstanding is certainly natural to the human mind. Mind is a misunderstanding, and through mind whatsoever you understand is misunderstanding. Understanding arises only when mind is absent, because what is mind after all? -- just a collection of thoughts, none of which is your experience. Through that screen of collected thoughts, whatever you see you interpret. You never see what is there, you only see what your mind can interpret. And all interpretations are misunderstandings. When there is no interpretation, you simply see the fact, the truth... that which is. Then the mind does not distort, does not color, does not give meanings to it. You don't have any mind; you are just an opening, a mirror reflecting reality as it is. What are the differences in the world between people?Read the full discourse →
The Dhammapada The Way Of The Buddha Vol 12 · Discourse 10
1980-04-30 · Buddha Hall · English
Question: BELOVED MASTER, WHAT IS MISUNDERSTANDING? Sahajananda, misunderstanding happens only to knowledgeable people, it never happens to the innocent. It never happens to those who know that they know nothing; only to them understanding happens. But to those who think they know already, their very knowledge is a disturbance, a distraction. It is knowledge that creates misunderstanding. If you are already carrying something in your mind, and then you listen to me, there are only two possibilities: either you find me agreeing with you or you find me disagreeing with you. If you find me agreeing with you, you must have misunderstood, because I cannot agree with you. It is impossible, I can agree with you only if you are also awakened, if you are also in the same space, only then.Read the full discourse →