According to Osho, love cannot be a 'should' or a commandment; it is a fragrance of awareness. Don’t force yourself to love a 'neighbor' out of duty; become loving through meditation and self-knowing, and love will naturally overflow to whoever is near—neighbor or stranger. Commandments produce hypocrisy; presence births authentic compassion without preference or effort.
Don’t love people because a rule says so; grow love inside and it will naturally include whoever is around you.