According to Osho, dispassion reaches the unconscious roots of passion only through direct, total experience of suffering—without escape, consolation, or second‑hand beliefs. Let pain, loss, and death be lived consciously, as meditation; like gold in fire, you are purified. No shortcuts exist; another’s insight won’t help. When suffering is fully lived, dispassion flowers and deepens by itself.
Feel your pain and losses completely instead of avoiding them, and natural detachment will grow on its own.