According to Osho, you should not try to 'understand' others as objects of inquiry; that effort is reductionist and immoral. True understanding of others cannot be forced or analyzed—it flowers naturally from unconditional love, acceptance, and your own self-understanding. Know yourself, where knower and known are one; with others, simply love without judgment, and understanding arises spontaneously, beyond labels and manipulation.
Don’t treat people like puzzles to solve—just love and accept them, and real understanding will quietly appear.