According to Osho, the mother‑daughter relationship is not a fated psychological prison or the root-cause of your life; blaming the mother is a modernized fatalism. Consciousness is free and responsible: transformation begins when the daughter drops scapegoating and chooses awareness now. Respect history, but don't be ruled by it; your soul flowers through responsibility, not inherited scripts.
Don't blame your mom for how you are; you can choose to change yourself right now.