According to Osho, the moment you decide to get married, love is replaced by a contract; decision belongs to the calculating mind, not to the spontaneity of love. Marriage can become possession and security, turning a living flow into an institution. He advises relating in freedom and awareness; if marriage happens, keep it a celebration, not a prison—remain alert so love stays fresh beyond vows and labels.
Deciding to marry can cage love, so stay free and aware so love stays alive beyond the contract.