According to Osho, if you’re wavering, marry and learn; warnings can’t replace firsthand experience. A brave person doesn’t let others’ fears decide; jump in and the truth of marriage will educate you—often by surrendering control and confronting your ego. Don’t overthink or outsource choices; act, accept consequences, and let experience—not borrowed ideas—reveal what to do and what not to do.
If you’re confused about marriage, stop worrying and try it—only living it will teach you, so be brave and accept whatever comes.