According to Osho, your struggle springs from borrowed ideals of strength; society teaches you to fight your natural softness. Resisting vulnerability turns life into competition, overexertion, and inner imbalance - like making the body steel and killing its harmony. Accepting your 'enoughness' brings simple health, ease, and the freedom to flower in your own way - poet, not wrestler - without self-condemnation.
Trying to be strong like others want hurts you; allowing your natural softness keeps you healthy and lets the real you grow.