According to Osho, loving and hating the same person is a symptom of your inner split created by the ideal of perfection. You cling to an imagined ‘should be’ and collide with ‘what is,’ so attraction and rejection alternate. Drop perfection, accept imperfection in yourself and others, relax into the present—then conflict dissolves and love becomes simple, joyful, and forgiving.
You love the perfect person in your head and hate the real, imperfect one—stop chasing perfection, accept how things are, and love stops fighting itself.