According to Osho, when love is happening, give yourself wholly to it—one world at a time. The first, bodily love ripens into mental friendship where possessiveness drops and you both face something higher. Eventually this love evaporates like dewdrops, and a new, deeper, objectless love arises. Only that mature love brings you nearer to your own being—and to the Master.
Enjoy your love fully now; as it matures, jealousy fades, it becomes friendship, and finally melts into a quiet love that brings you close to yourself and to truth.