According to Osho, your ‘detachment’ is usually fear masquerading as spirituality—not true transcendence. Confronted with free, alive feminine energy, many men feel inferior and shrink back; cultures then repress women to manage this fear. Real detachment comes only after understanding, celebrating, and exhausting sex consciously—not by avoiding it. Otherwise, repression persists and nervousness returns.
You’re not beyond sex—you’re just scared; grow through honest, joyful sex first, then detachment happens naturally.