According to Osho, you let women hold power over you because, as a man, you have wings but lack roots; woman is the earth that grounds your fear of drifting. Until you discover your inner feminine, you’ll keep seeking outer anchoring and remain governed by need. Real freedom comes by finding that inner woman, turning relationships from dependency into love.
You give women power when you don’t have inner roots, so you lean on them to feel steady; grow those roots inside and the neediness drops.