According to Osho, urgency and effortless play are not to be reconciled but chosen according to your inner type. The 'masculine' mind thrives on urgency, total effort, and crisis; the 'feminine' mind blossoms in surrender, receptivity, and timeless playfulness. Identify your tendency and commit wholly to that method—mixing them creates tension and failure.
Pick the way that fits you: if you’re a doer, push hard; if you’re a let-go type, relax and allow—and don’t mix them.