According to Osho, the self-realized neither becomes happy nor unhappy from others’ pleasure or pain. Seeing both as dreamlike misperceptions, they remain unaffected yet deeply compassionate. They don’t fight your 'demons'; they try to wake you by bringing light, like revealing a rope mistaken for a snake. Their empathy remembers past delusion, but their response is compassionate clarity, sometimes laughter at the power of the false.
Enlightened people don’t catch your joy or sorrow; they care and try to wake you from the bad dream by showing what’s real.