According to Osho, a truly self-realized person is neither affected nor unaffected—because the “someone” to be affected has dissolved. Enlightenment is transparency: happenings occur, the body-mind may sway, yet the inner emptiness remains untouched, like a lotus in water. One stands in the marketplace yet is in the temple; this miracle happens not by willpower but by the disappearance of egoic identity.
When the idea of ‘me’ drops, life still happens to the body and mind, but your real center stays untouched, simply witnessing.