According to Osho, in our present condition “soulmates” are mostly cellmates—intimate enemies—because ordinary love flips into hate. There are no true soulmates without first knowing the soul, which requires inner education: meditation, silence, love as lived experience. Transform yourself (and education) and love becomes sharing, compassion, and freedom; only then can partnership transcend the prison and become genuinely soulful.
If you don’t know your own soul, love feels like a cage; learn inner peace and real love, and your partner stops being a jailmate and becomes a true companion.