According to Osho, sexiness is the fragrance of your being, not a mechanical erection. Identification with performance creates anxiety; relaxation, playfulness and loving presence make your energy magnetic. Erection comes and goes; awareness and tenderness can deepen intimacy beyond genital success. Drop comparison and fear; celebrate the body as a doorway, not a verdict on your worth.
You're still sexy when you're relaxed, loving, and present; it's not just about a stiff penis.